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bluidkiti · 10-29-2013, 07:47 AM

October 30

Turn Down the Volume

Good arguments do not require many decibels to be heard. The strength of an argument is enough to carry it. It is only when the argument is weak that we yell loudly, trying to impress others with sound what is lacking in content. I have never heard anyone yell, I am an alcoholic. But I have heard very loud protests, I am not an alcoholic. Attention to the loudness of an assertion can help gauge its validity. If you find yourself yelling, at home, at work, with friends, pause and reflect. If what you're saying is really correct, there should be no need for screaming. If you wish to be heard, speak softly.

10-29-2013, 07:47 AM	#30
bluidkiti Administrator Join Date: Aug 2013 Posts: 71,341	October 30 Turn Down the Volume Good arguments do not require many decibels to be heard. The strength of an argument is enough to carry it. It is only when the argument is weak that we yell loudly, trying to impress others with sound what is lacking in content. I have never heard anyone yell, I am an alcoholic. But I have heard very loud protests, I am not an alcoholic. Attention to the loudness of an assertion can help gauge its validity. If you find yourself yelling, at home, at work, with friends, pause and reflect. If what you're saying is really correct, there should be no need for screaming. If you wish to be heard, speak softly. __________________ "No matter what you have done up to this moment, you get 24 brand-new hours to spend every single day." --Brian Tracy AA gives us an opportunity to recreate ourselves, with God's help, one day at a time. --Rufus K. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. --Franklin D. Roosevelt We stay sober and clean together - one day at a time! God says that each of us is worth loving.